being practical...

Have you ever had a feeling where you know the other person is wrong. He / she is going on a wrong path. You know from the bottom of your heart that he / she is going to face lot of problems in his life later because of this attitude. You try from the bottom of heart to improve his / her conditions, many times getting insulted, abused, with a feeling of being useless and crap given by other person, but you care for the other person so intensely that you suffer in silence? You do not reciprocate in anger, you do not try to argue because you know that will not improve the conditions and only will make things worse.

Human mind is illogical many times. I admire (?) those people who call themselves practical because they can control their feelings so intensely and give that I do not care attitude. Many times these people make you leave wondering, am I being coward by not reacting back or by showing I do care attitude. It gives a hell lot of feeling of being in-confident. You know the other person is nowhere near you, but you continue because there is some kind of bond, by which you feel responsible for the other persons betterment. Its complex. Is this the sign of you being weak at heart and mind? Is arrogance and self centered attitude correct? There are many questions which many people like us some times ponder upon.

How do these people react when they understand the mistakes they did some time back, but can not revert back because time has passed. With time things change. But only if some people were more wise, more concerned about their own well being, they could make this world a more better place.

Being practical is good. But being practical at the cost of others by hurting others is definitely not good. Many people realize their mistakes later in their life. And then there are only regrets to fill ....